communication breakdown

I really wish I was better at talking to people. it's not that I don't want to make conversation, most of the time, it's that I honestly don't know what the hell to say. I don't know what to talk about in order to get to the point where you can talk about everything. I guess it's something you're born with, or you're not, and if you're not, you're fucked, and everyone else will get to do the things you want to do.