I never get when people say, "don't worry, just relax, it'll happen when you're least trying." I mean, are there different levels of trying to make something that you want to happen, happen? that is, if you're really not trying, at all, I kind of doubt good things are going to happen to you. I mean, if you just lie on your couch all day and really don't try...shit's not going to happen. and if you're actively doing anything at all...you're trying.

I SWEAR I HAD SOMETHING TO SAY THAT WAS INSIGHTFUL, BUT IT'S 2:33 AM AND I HAVE APPARENTLY LOST IT. never mind. do, or do not. there is no try. I think that's what I'm trying to say.